Things just don't happen on our timeline.
My partner and I are selling our family home. It has been incredibly stressful. We've actually sold it twice and it's fallen through twice (no fault of ours or the houses). It's been a real pain in the ass if I'm honest haha.
But during this process, I've really had to accept and lean into the fact that things just don't happen on our timeline.
I wanted it to sell. I wanted to move out and move on. I wanted to start the next chapter. I wanted to sell the house so badly and technically we have, twice, but I've absolutely had to lean into the fact that this isn't on my timeline. And really... nothing is.
As much as we want or dream, things happen when we're ready for them. Things happen when we have the energy, space and capacity for them.
And if I'm entirely honest, I probably haven't had the energy, space, capacity or even time to think about packing my house and moving lately. I can see that, I can acknowledge that and I can absolutely agree with that.
And now, since all of this has happened, we've decided to take it off of the market. We will move on and move out. We will start our next chapter. It is just happening in it's own time and it's own way and I'm now okay with that.
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