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5 things you can do when you start to feel flat

Updated: Aug 20

Newcastle Australian Holistic Counsellor & Wellbeing Coach

We all have those moments... when everything feels just a little bit heavier, slower, foggier. When your body feels drained, your mind feels cluttered, and even the simplest tasks feel like too much. It’s that familiar sense of feeling flat. Not quite burned out, but not fully present either. Somewhere in between okay and not okay. A quiet kind of exhaustion that’s hard to put into words.


It happens to all of us. And when it does, it’s not a sign that something is wrong with you. It’s simply a message from your body and your mind that it’s time to pause. To reset. To gently bring yourself back to life in small, loving ways.


Here are five simple, supportive practices that can help you lift the heaviness, replenish your energy, and come back home to yourself.


Move your body (gently, slowly, however feels right)

Sometimes when we feel flat, our first instinct is to rest, and that’s important. But other times, what we actually need is a little movement. A way to shift the energy that’s become stuck or stagnant. You don’t need a full workout. You don’t need motivation. You just need to start.


It might be stretching your arms overhead, taking a slow walk around the block, doing a few gentle yoga poses, or even dancing in your living room to your favourite song. Movement doesn’t just energise the body, it awakens the soul. It reminds your body that it’s safe to take up space, to breathe, to feel.


And the beauty of movement is that it meets you where you are. You can start slow. You can stop when you need. You can listen to your body and let it lead the way.


Step outside and reconnect with nature

When you’re feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or emotionally drained, the natural world can be one of the most powerful sources of healing. Nature doesn’t ask anything of you. It simply invites you to be.


Even a few minutes outside can change the way you feel. Step into the sun and feel it on your skin. Sit on the grass and breathe. Walk barefoot for a moment. Listen to the sound of the wind, the birds, the leaves rustling. Let the earth remind you that you are not separate from it, you belong here too.


There’s something about the stillness of nature that helps us find our own. It regulates our nervous system, clears mental fog, and brings us back into our bodies in the most gentle way.


Nourish and hydrate your body

Sometimes feeling flat is a simple signal from the body that it needs fuel. Not in a complicated or overwhelming way, just a gentle check-in. When was the last time you drank a glass of water? When did you last eat something nourishing, something that your body actually needs?


Start with the basics. Drink some water slowly. Eat something light and whole, maybe fruit, a handful of nuts, or a warm, grounding meal. Listen to what your body is asking for, and meet it with care.


So often, we forget how deeply our physical state impacts our emotional and mental energy. Hydration and nourishment are simple acts, but they’re also powerful forms of self-respect.


Breathe (really, truly breathe)

When you’re feeling flat or overwhelmed, your breath can become shallow, fast, or held without even realising it. One of the quickest and most effective ways to reset your nervous system is through conscious breathing.


Find a quiet spot. Sit or lie down. Close your eyes if it feels safe. Then take a slow, deep breath in through your nose… and an even slower breath out through your mouth. Let your shoulders drop. Let your body soften. Do this a few more times.


Even just one minute of deep, conscious breathing can help calm your mind, release tension in your body, and reconnect you with the present moment. It’s a practice that says: I am here. I am safe. I am okay.


Reignite your spark with something creative or joyful

When life feels heavy or monotonous, a little creativity or playfulness can help shift your mood. You don’t have to be an artist or a musician. It’s not about productivity or outcome. It’s about feeling something again. About inviting a little lightness in.


Maybe you put on a playlist and let yourself dance for a minute. Maybe you scribble in a journal, paint something abstract, bake something new, or sing out loud while making dinner. Maybe you play a game with your kids, write a note to a friend, or simply laugh at something silly on the internet.


Creative energy is healing energy. It reminds you that joy still lives within you, even when everything feels dull or grey. It helps you come back to life, one spark at a time.


The reminder you might need right now


When you’re feeling flat, you don’t need to overhaul your life. You don’t need to fix yourself. You simply need to meet yourself where you are. Gently. Lovingly. Patiently.


These practices aren’t a prescription. They’re an invitation. To move. To breathe. To nourish. To reconnect. To come home to yourself again.


And maybe today, that looks like a slow walk or a glass of water. Maybe it’s a big exhale or a few minutes outside. Maybe it’s simply remembering that feeling flat doesn’t mean you’re failing, it just means you’re human.


Your body, your mind, your soul… they’re always speaking to you. And the more you learn to listen, the more you’ll find your own rhythm again.


So if today feels heavy, let it be. And when you’re ready, gently choose one small way to begin again.


With love & support,

Shorina | Mindful Soul Collective

Holistic Counsellor, Wellbeing Coach & Business Mentor

 
 
 

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